Why do people say I be have a bit effeminate?

I come from a wealthy family, so can you blame me for 'abusing' my wealth? I love dressing. My hair is perfect, and I look perfect. I have bright blue eyes. Not the typical blue eyes everyone has, but VERY bright blue eyes. Eyes you CAN see from a distance. My hair is jet, raven black. I am 3/4 Nordic Scandinavian and 1/4 Basque, so I'm a perfect mix. Nordic features plus the more tan skin and perfectly beautiful black hair. Before I go to school, I have my hair done etc. Though, I'm not the soft type of guy. I have an amazing accent; acquired from my travels. I've traveled/lived in Australia, France, Italy, Brazil, Norway and I'm now in the USA. I'm a good football (called soccer in America) player. I'm also good at Rugby, American 'football', and a master at several martial arts including Capoeira, the Brazilian 'dance of war'. I'm also the proud owner of a Lamborghini Murcielago LP 670-4 SuperVeloce. That's my life anyway, so how can I be effeminate? I do wear tight jeans and tops, but does that matter? People are so closed minded.